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[luna amara]

dragoste sau indragosteala ..indragostire cine poate hotari ce ni se intimpla atita timp cit simtim ca plutim ...dar vrem sa stim ce ni se intimpla? suntem fericiti atunci ?..sau nu.?..de ce anume te indragostesti la un om ? ce iubesti la el? daca iti raspunzi la aceste intrebari vei sti daca il iubesti sau e numai indragosteala ? ce inseamna dragoste la prima vedere ? ce vezi la prima vedere? cred ca nu e vorba de prima vedere in sens fizic e vorba de primul contact prima cunoastere in sens mai larg ...in fine atit de larg cit iti poate permite acea "vedere"...ITREvedere

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[dataq23]

Iubirea e un BUBOI care creshte pe inima...Creshte, creshte pan' ce se sparge...Si nici atunci nu shtii daca ai scapat...
Eu nici nu vreau sa-l sparg cu toate ca doare...in fiecare zi...de fieacare data cand o vad...
Dragoste la prima vedere...exista, nu zic nu, dar de obicei nu este reciproca...si atunci e JALE...o traiesc...
Sfatul meu: nu visatzi, indraznitzi...shi fitzi cumintzi...
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Sa stii, sa vrei, sa indraznesti, sa taci...

[Airman04061969]

Definitiile casatoriei, conform Oxford Dictionary, :
* the dawn of romance and the commencement of history

* a word that should be pronounced as "mirage"

* an event, for the upper middle class, is the only adventure left

* a very good way to promote civilization -- if you get a good wife you will be happy, if you get a bad one you will become a philosopher {Socrates}

* a process much like a cafeteria -- you carefully look over the choices, select what looks the best -- and pay later

* an event which is called "tying the knot" -- unfortunately, the knot can be a noose

* a word which always means commitment -- but so does insanity

* a ceremony favored in England -- it's the only way to beat their cold winters and lack of central heating

* something that changes the demeanor of a driver -- there is no longer any effort needed to keep both hands on the wheel

* the only permanent cure for love

* is only compatible when the man makes a living and his wife makes living worthwhile

* the only adventure open to the cowardly

* something which is called a feast -- unfortunately, sometimes the appetizer is better than the main course

* a group which consists of: a master, a mistress, and two slaves, making in all, two

* the alliance of two people, one who never remembers birthdays, and the other who never forgets them

* the process that turns a female from an attraction into a distraction

* a legal custom which turns a man into the captive audience of his wife

* that ceremony which makes more strange bedfellows than politics

* a rite where two people, under the influence most violent, most insane, most delusive, and most transient of passions, are required to swear that they will remain in that excited, abnormal and exhausting condition until death do them part

* occurs where a man gets hooked by his own line

* in America, is the only legal method of suppressing freedom of speech

* is made out of two toothbrushes but a single tube of toothpaste

* is just a three-ring circus: engagement, wedding, and suffer

* the process of finding out the kind of guy your wife would have preferred

* a condition where no wife gets what she expected, and no husband expected what he was getting

* the ceremony which provides a man with something that, sooner or later, he will find he can't blame on the government

* a tradition which would suffer considerably if men had to pay the minister the same fee they will eventually have to pay the divorce lawyer

* is much like a pair of shears, so joined so the parts cannot be separated, often moving in opposite directions, yet always punishing anyone who tries to come between them

* the continuous process of getting used to things you never expected

* a status which depends upon two to be successful but only one to turn into a failure

* is a book in which the first chapter is written in poetry and the rest of the book is prose

* a bargain, and a sensible person understands that someone must get the better of any bargain

* in Japanese is called "Judo" -- the art of conquering by yielding. This is the western equivalent of "Yes, dear"

* a confrontation which always demands the greatest understanding of the subtle art of insincerity possible between two human beings

* is not a word, but a sentence

* a delightful form of combat where you get to sleep with the enemy

* an investment that pays big dividends if you manage to keep up the interest

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Bogdan Voicu
("Good judgement comes from experience but experience comes from a lot of (previous) bad judgements").

[Airman04061969]

More definitions:
* BRIDE the person who is the first to put her foot down after being carried across the threshold
* a woman who looks happy but isn't -- the look is triumph
* a woman who wanted a man to make little advances to her during courtship and large advances after marriage

* CHARACTER a virtue which is formed in youth and reformed by marriage

* CYNIC a person who feels that divorce should cost more than marriage -- because it's worth much more

* DICTIONARY the only place where divorce comes before marriage

* ENGAGEMENT that period in a man's life which can sometimes end happily -- unless it ends in marriage
* a word with two meanings
1. in war, it is a battle
2. in courtship, a surrender

* HUMOR the one sure way to make a marriage last

* HUSBAND man who lost his liberty in the pursuit of happiness
* a sensible sort of a man -- he never thinks of romance and marriage
* a man who has to grow old alone
* is much like a fire -- he goes out if unattended
* living proof that women can take a joke
* a man who has one mistake in his existence -- and keeps learning from it all his life
* what is left of a lover, after the nerve has been removed
* a person who never really becomes "good," he is merely more proficient

* HUSBAND, Good a man who feels in his pockets every time he passes a mailbox

* HUSBAND, Henpecked a man who always consults his better half instead of his better judgment
* a species of worm which is afraid to turn
* a man who is so timid, he is even afraid to talk back to other people's wives

* HUSBAND, Perfect is, in a man's second marriage, her first mate

* HUSBAND, Smart one who thinks twice before saying nothing
* a man who buys his wife such fine china that she will never trust him to do the dishes
* a man who is never so busy bringing home the bacon that he forgets the applesauce
* a man who is on listening terms with his wife

* HUSBAND, Traditional a man who expects his wife to help him with the dishes

* KISSING a method of getting two people so close together that they can't possibly see anything wrong with each other
* while, medically, it may not spread infection -- it sure lowers a girl's resistance
* an action that only marriage can transform from a pleasure to a duty

* INFATUATION a wasting disease easily cured -- by marriage

* LOVE, True marrying a girl, even though she hasn't a steady job

* LUXURIES items which, by grand design, always cost more -- for example: a divorce decree costs more than a marriage license

* MIRAGE another, and probably more precise way, to spell marriage

* PARTNERSHIP a legal fiction exactly like marriage, but without the major benefits

* SEX DRIVE a physical craving which appears at puberty and ends at marriage

* WATERBED a device that may help a marriage -- then again, the couple may drift apart

* WIFE another man's folly
* someone who is too beautiful for words -- but not for arguments
* a great comfort during her husband's troubles -- those, that as a bachelor, he would never have had
* a lady with a whim of iron
* a person who sits up with you when you are sick, and puts up with you when you are not
* the one person who in an argument, if you win -- you lose
* a lady who is much like an angler -- each think the best one got away
* a woman who can be labeled intelligent when she sees through her husband -- she's understanding when she sees him through
* what a man blames things on when he can't figure a way to blame the government
* a woman who can spot a blond hair on her husband's coat from ten feet away but can never see a fire plug when she parks
* a female who would rather mend your ways than your socks
* a woman who, in the same breath, can complain she has nothing to wear, and is bemoaning she needs more closet space
* a spouse who always feels she doesn't dance enough
* is in trouble with her roles when her husband finds her a whore in the kitchen and a cook in the bedroom
* a person who only lasts as long as a marriage -- an ex-wife is forever

* WIFE, Happy a spouse who is sometimes so because she has the best husband -- more often it is that she makes the best of the husband she has

* WIFE, Wise one who makes her husband feel as if he is head of the house when, in reality, he is only chairman of the entertainment committee

* WOMAN, Liberated a female who has sex before marriage and a job after
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Bogdan Voicu
("Good judgement comes from experience but experience comes from a lot of (previous) bad judgements").

[where_u_go]

dragoste la prima vedere...nu exista asa ceva.la prima vedere e doar o atractie fizica care o poti avea si pt un star porno.intrii in vorba si descoperi ca e f interesanta...e lojic ca doar descoperi multe chestii noi si aceasta hranire nebuna a intelectului si personalitatii face ca momentul sa fie magic...dar nu e dragoste...
cand iti dai seama ca e dragoste si nu "indragosteala"?cand nu mai poti fara ea?cand tiai dori sa fi cu ea?cand vrei s-o strangi in brate si s-o sufoci sarutand-o?cand adori sa o tii de mana si sa va plimbati?NU.astea-s doar sentimente si stari care pot trece usor...dragostea adevarata o gasesti intr-o zi,cand te uiti in spate,si vezi ca dupa atata timp inca nu ai descoperit totul la ea,ca inca te mai atrage din toate punctele de vedere,ca inca iti mai trezeste sentimente nebune,cand esti sigur ca nu iti mai trebuie altceva in viata,caci ti-ai atins apogeul sufletesc.
asta-i dragostea,nu glumele sentimentale cu care isi bate creierul tau joc de "inima" in fiecare zi,intr-o relatie in care crezi ca iubesti.
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cu pistolu' la cap

[Anne]

dragoste = batai de inima pentru dureri de cap . sentimentul ce vine in galop si dispare in varful picioarelor

sau o poezioara frumoasa de-a lui blaga ce explica dragostea , sa fie 2 interpretari
nu stiu daca e exact asa ca nu am cartea acum la indemana , asa ca incerc sa o reproduc :

cand fiecare celula din noi
devine o inima
atuncea suntem bolnavi ..
dar numai iubirea
ne incearca in acest mod.
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[Gutzu]

Cand simti ca totul se destrama incetul cu incetul in jurul tau, prietenii nu mai sunt prieteni iar ziua nu mai e la fel de frumoasa atunci cand esti singur, cand totul pare trist si lipsit de logica, in momentele crude pe care viata ti le daruieste, abia atunci realizezi cata nevoie ai de cineva alaturi, care sa se bucure si sa planga odata cu tine, care sa-ti aline suferinta, atunci cand este suferinta, si care sa te felicite pentru toate reusitele.Triste sunt zilele pline de cautari in care speri ca vei gasi pe cineva care sa-ti fie aproape, cand in sfarsit gasesti pe cineva care crezi ca iti e aproape ca apoi totul sa se termine brusc si tot universul cladit in jurul "cineva-ului" tau se prabuseste, cand toate sperantele se naruie precum un castel de nisip in bataia valurilor marii,ramanand doar cu amintirile, uneori frumoase a zilelor ce au trecut alaturi de persoana pe care o credeai sufletul pereche;Destul de ciudat este faptul ca noptile scaldate in lacrimi, suferinta pe care o induri, nu te-a impiedicat sa cauti iubirea in alta parte, nu te impiedica sa speri desi ai fost dezamagit, si cauti, cauti...pentru ca intr-un final sa o gasesti, sa fie EA, sa fie doar a ta, sa simti ca inima ei bate odata cu inima ta.Insa asta e doar un "happy end" de care doar o mica parte, o prea mica parte dintre noi are norocul sa "se loveasca", totul sfarsindu-se pentru restul mai trist decat la inceput, mai trist decat ar fi fost daca nu s-ar fi intamplat.
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Ah, ce usor ne lasam convinsi de persoanele pe care le iubim. Moliere

[Anne]

Gutzu vorbesti din experienta ta nu?
daca ti s-a intamplat sa ai dezamagirea asta nu inseamna ca asa va fi si data viitoare , ca sa gasesti ce cauti , sa gasesti acea persoana , acea Ea trebuie sa ai parte de multe hopuri si multe tristesti , dar pana la urma se merita , caci la sfarsit te regasasesti impreuna cu Ea si nimic din ce a trecut nu poate fi comparat cu ce simti atunci , numai ca de cele mai multe ori ne oprim din cautare cand suntem poate cel mai aproape si ne multumim cu ceea ce gasim , o aseamanare a Ei/Lui
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[Gutzu]

Anne...doar 1 % din ce am scris e din experienta...eu nu renunt sa caut, si stiu ca pentru mine va exista un happy end...pentru ca merit...si deja incep sa ma laud...deci mai bine nu mai continui
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Ah, ce usor ne lasam convinsi de persoanele pe care le iubim. Moliere

[Anne]

aha .. deci vorbesti din auzite
nu renunta sa cauti .. dar te-ai intrebat daca exista ce cauti ?
vezi sa nu pleci in cautarea tezaurului inexistent .
si sunt multi care merita si nu sunt rasplatiti .
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[prichindela]

parerea mea ii k nu fizicul si foarte multe pers gresesc "indragostindu-se de fizic" ..... de obicei adevarata dragoste o gasesti dupa ce ajungi sa cunosti cu adevarat pers de langa tine ...... .........ps: ziceam eu k nu conteaza fizicul dar nici nu ET sa nu te legi la cap
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